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Preparing for a first introduction

What to think about before meeting someone your matchmaker has introduced, including the practical questions people most often forget to ask.

Marryly editorial team · Published · Reviewed by Head of client advisory

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An introduction is not an interview

Both people have agreed to be introduced and both are there for the same reason. The conversation works better when it is treated as a first meeting between equals rather than an assessment.

Language, and what to arrange in advance

Where a shared language is limited, interpretation is arranged for you. Knowing that in advance changes how a first conversation feels.

Practical questions worth settling early

TODO(content): list the practical questions the advisory team see people forget — timing, who else will be present, how long the visit is — and answer them plainly.

Afterwards

Your matchmaker will speak with both of you separately. Either person can say the introduction is not right, and that is a normal outcome rather than a failure.

Related reading: what a consultation covers, and the Southeast Asia region page.

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